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昨天晚上，几位陪读妈妈聊孩子的学习一直到深夜，真是哪里的孩子学习都不轻松。

国内的家长陪孩子写作业鸡飞狗跳，海外的陪读妈妈情况也没好到哪里去。

正巧收到OXFORD LEARNING的邮件，我小孩在这个据说挺出名的教育机构补习英语。

于是，就把这封邮件中关于怎么辅导孩子学习的内容整理一下，供各位家长参考。

以下是根据用翻译软件翻译的邮件内容：

您的孩子刚刚带回了他或她的最新测试结果，而结果却不如您希望的那样。

您的孩子学习了材料……那怎么了？

这是许多学生和家长面临的问题。对于许多学生来说，问题归结为无效的学习习惯。

处理不良的学习习惯

要成为一名更成功的学生，首先要看看您孩子当前的学习技能。确定问题区域（或您的孩子可以使用的地方）可以帮助您开始解决任何问题。

为孩子寻找最好的学习方法是一个持续的过程，没有一个正确的答案。

但是，每位成功的学生都有一些学习习惯，您的孩子可以利用它来发挥自己的全部潜能。

了解您的孩子如何消除不良的学习习惯，并开始建立更有效的习惯，以成为更成功的学生。

要避免的11个不良学习习惯……以及如何解决它们

1.在没有计划的情况下开始学习

解决方法：在您的孩子开始学习之前，创建一个学习计划，概述您的孩子在本节课中应该完成的工作。帮助您的孩子为每个学习环节设定一个目标，例如他或她应该能够解释哪些概念，或者他或她将写多少页作业。

2.等到最后一分钟开始作业

解决方法：写下所有作业的到期日期，并与您的孩子一起计划何时做。至少在作业到期前一周开始作业，并逐步完成作业。这也将帮助他们减少压力。

3.花费时间学习，但没有完成任何工作

解决方法：了解您的孩子一天中哪一天最有生产力，然后进行最多的学习。对于某些学生来说，早晨是他们最精明，随时准备学习的时间。对于其他人来说，晚上学习是他们最好的时间。

4.被社交媒体和手机分散注意力

如何解决：关闭手机并注销社交媒体帐户。保存在Facebook上签到或将文本发送给朋友进行学习休息，或者在孩子完成一天的学习后甚至更好。

5.在电视机前学习

解决方法：在您家中选择一个人流少的地方，让您的孩子远离杂念而学习。使其成为专门用于学习的地点。这将鼓励您的孩子快速开始工作。尽可能避开孩子的卧室-应该保留该空间以便放松和睡眠！

6.试图在前一天晚上补习

解决方法：早点学习，每晚学习一点。较长时间地复习材料将帮助您的孩子更好地记住信息，并帮助确定需要额外复习时间的任何领域。

7.如果您听不懂，没有向老师求助

如何解决：每天晚上，花几分钟时间回顾和反思您的孩子那天在课堂上学到的东西。在他或她不了解您的孩子可以去教科书上寻求其他帮助的任何事情上做笔记。

8.学习记住，而不是学习理解

如何解决问题：鼓励孩子将其与他或她学到的其他东西联系起来，而不仅仅是记住测试材料。制作思维导图，您的孩子可以用来关联信息并加深对材料的理解。

9.没有使用议程

解决方法：为您的孩子设定一个目标，以便在一个月内每天使用他或她的议程。写下项目，测试和作业分配的日期。一旦您的孩子养成了在日程安排中写下所有内容的习惯，他或她会发现更容易记住并计划按时完成作业。

10.保持混乱的笔记

解决方法：首先，将每个主题的笔记整理到各自的文件夹中。然后，开始练习如何记下更有效的笔记。尝试不同的笔记方式，并帮助您的孩子选择最适合自己的笔记方式。

11.没有从错误中学习

如何解决：成功的学生可以从错误中学习。如果您的孩子在考试或作业中成绩不佳，请鼓励您的孩子不要放弃。利用经验确定您的孩子仍可以改善的地方，并制定下一次做得更好的计划。

以下是原文：

Your child just brought home his or her latest test results—and they’re not as good as you hoped.

Your child studied the material…so what happened?

It’s an issue that many students and parents have faced. For many students, the problem comes down to ineffective study habits.

Dealing with Poor Study Habits

Becoming a more successful student starts with taking a look at your child’s current study skills. Identifying problem areas (or areas where your child can use a bit of a boost) can help you start addressing any problems.

Finding the best way to study for your child is an ongoing process—and there is no one right answer. But there are some study habits that every successful student has that your child can use to reach his or her full potential.

Learn how your child can break bad study habits and start building more effective ones to become a more successful student.

11 Bad Study Habits To Avoid…And How To Fix Them

 1.Starting a study session without a plan

How to fix it: Before your child starts studying, create a study plan that outlines what your child should accomplish in this session. Help your child set a goal for each study session, such as which concepts he or she should be able to explain, or how many pages of an assignment he or she will write.

2.Waiting until the last minute to start an assignment

How to fix it: Write down when all assignments are due, and plan with your child when he or she will work on each. Start assignments at least a week before they are due, and work on completing them little by little. This will help make them less overwhelming, too.

3.Spending hours studying, but not getting anything done

How to fix it: Learn which part of the day your child is most productive and do most studying then. For some students, the morning hours are when they are sharpest and ready to learn. For others, studying at night is when they work best.

 4.Being distracted by social media and cell phones

How to fix it: Turn off the cell phone and sign out of social media accounts. Save checking in on Facebook or sending that text to a friend for a study break—or even better, when your child has finished studying for the day.

 5.Studying in front of the television

How to fix it: Choose a low-traffic spot in your home where your child can study away from distractions. Make this a spot that is specifically used for studying. This will encourage your child to get down to work quickly. Avoid your child’s bedroom if possible—this space should be saved for relaxing and sleeping!

 6.Trying to cram for tests the night before

How to fix it: Start studying early and study a little bit each night. Reviewing the material over a longer period of time will help your child remember information better, and help identify any areas that need some extra review time.

7.Not asking the teacher for help when you don’t understand

How to fix it: Each night, spend a couple minutes reviewing and reflecting on what your child learned in class that day. Make notes on anything he or she didn’t understand that your child can take to the teach for extra help.

 8.Studying to remember, instead of studying to understand

How to fix it: Instead of just memorizing material for a test, encourage your child to connect it to other things he or she has learned. Make a mind map your child can use to relate information and develop a deeper understanding of the material.

 9.Never using an agenda

How to fix it: Set a goal for your child to use his or her agenda every day for a month. Write down the dates of projects, tests, and homework assignments. Once your child gets in the habit of writing everything down in his or her agenda, he or she will find it easier to remember and plan to complete assignments on time.

 10.Keeping disorganized notes

How to fix it: First, organize notes from each subject into their own folder. Then, start practicing how to take more effective notes. Try out different note taking methods, and help your child choose one that works best for him or her.

11.Not learning from your mistakes

How to fix it: Successful students learn from their mistakes. If your child gets a bad mark on a test or assignment, encourage your child not to give up. Use the experience to figure out where your child can still improve and make a plan to do better next time.